INTERFAITH MARRIAGES: September 2019

Sunday, September 1, 2019

Jewish Muslim Wedding

Rabbi Gershon and Mike Ghouse officiated a Muslim Jewish interfaith marriage on Saturday, 8/24/19- both of them seamlessly officiated the wedding.

It has been a blessing to unite over 80 couples, and thank God for the guidance to have delivered sermons in both the faith traditions of the couples.

God created the world in harmony, and the universe runs on a precisely programmed trajectory. All that he/she/it wants is that we preserve and manage that harmony. Indeed, God puts love between two souls, which brings them together, and the fulfillment of that relationship comes thru the marriage.

Like the birds, and whales that travel thousands of miles to their nesting place, God also has built-in GPS in humans that bring them together. India’s famous poet, Ghalib had said, love happens, there is no reason or rhyme to it, nor there any criteria, individuals fall in love and come together like they were meant to be. Indeed by marrying, they bring fulfillment to their God-given GPS-Love and add to the harmony of the world.

Religions don’t marry each other; individuals do. The Rabbi and I officiated the interfaith wedding for this beautiful couple. GOD BLESS THEM, Amen.

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INTERFAITH MARRIAGE IS VERY AMERICAN

Thank God for America, hope for the world, we have always led the world in culture, science, maths, medicine…. and now religion.

Only in the United States, you find Reformed Judaism, reformed Hinduism, reformed Christianity, and reformed Islam (although not pronounced yet, it is here) and reformed other faiths.

Children can be raised in both faiths and let them choose which way they want to go when they become adults.

The purpose of religion was to create societies where men and women, people of different faiths, young and old and different races, ethnicities, cultures and others uniqueness live in harmony, and securely. That is all God wants – he crated the world precisely and in harmony, he wants us to maintain it. Religions are the instruments to achieve that.

America is the place, and other nations will follow us over a decade.

Why do Children have to follow parents faith or culture? What is the need, let them live their lives in the pursuit of their happiness.

Mike Ghouse
Interfaith Wedding Officiant
ww.InterfaithMarriages.org

UPDATES.

Interfaith marriages are becoming a common place, and in a few years, it will be a norm. Even though I have officiated ceremonies for Jewish-Christian, Hindu-Christian, Atheist-Jain and several other combinations, a majority of them are between Muslims and non-Muslims. These include in particular Muslim women with Jewish, Christian, Hindu, Jain and men of other faiths. I have a few articles that I hope to complete and publish them in Islam Online and other respected Islamic journals and bring relief to so many men and women who fall in love and want to get married.

God loves those who get married and stay married, because without marriage you and I would not have existed, marriage adds dignity to the relationship. Many Muslim scholars and I view that, the larger purpose of Islam is to create a cohesive world, Islam is universal enough to accommodate all views.

SpeakerMike Ghouse@gmail.com
www.InterfaithSpeaker.com
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ABOUT THE WEDDINGS

It is disappointing to many a religiously oriented first-time marrying couples. Their clergy or a parent invariably insists that the other person to convert to their faith tradition, some do, and some fake it and some are not comfortable with the idea at all.

When a couple is deeply committed to marry, they go ahead and get married any way but sorely miss out on the ceremony. Over the years, I have seen too many couples miss out on the joy of that additional sense of completeness that comes with a religious ceremony. Marriage is between two individuals, and their families and friends ought to be supporters and cheerleaders to celebrate and complete their joy.

As a Pluralist, I have chosen to officiate the weddings of such couples to reflect the essence of Bride and Groom's tradition. I laud such couples who embrace genuine humanity by respecting the otherness of other, and accepting each other's uniqueness. If the couple prefers to please the religiosity of their parents, relatives and friends, the sermon would include reflections and essence of the faith of the couple.

I am blessed to have performed some uniquely beautiful combination of weddings; Jewish Bride and a Christian groom; Muslim bride and Jain groom, Hindu Bride and Muslim groom, Christians Bride and Atheist groom..... it was such a joy to see their families cheer at the end.

I had a difficult father of a Christian groom who was vehemently against the Hindu girl marrying without conversion, he did not even want to be a part of the wedding, but I felt, a good heart to heart conversation will make a dent, and it did. The man who did not talk with his son for two months and did not want to be a part of the wedding was greatful for the semblance of Christian wedding and then hung out with the kids for celebrations. Oh, there are lots of good stories to share.

By the way, officiating wedding is not my business, I do it for the joy for fulfilling the religious needs of the couples.

Mike Ghouse is a member of the American Marriage Ministries, a non-profit established in Washington State in 2009.

"We provide all people the ability to celebrate marriage and other religious functions according to their beliefs. We believe that this is an innate human right and is also protected by the 1st Amendment. Our values come from the understanding that all people, whether religious or not, have deep personal values and should be treated with respect, acceptance, and understanding."

Marriage is a celebration that brings people together, and we want to extend that ethos further by being a church comprised of a wide cross-section of people that have found common ground in the service of bringing people together.

To begin, the legal dimension to officiating a wedding simply involves completing a piece of paper, the marriage license. The marriage license is the legal document of marriage. It is filed for by the couple from their local government prior to the wedding.

The role of the minister is to conduct the wedding, have the couple present their marriage license, make sure that the information is correct, and complete the license. The couple then returns the completed license back to its office of issuance.

Personally, Mike is committed to building a Cohesive America and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. He is a professional speaker, thinker and a writer on pluralism, interfaith, politics and civic affairs.

Mike is a frequent guest on Sean Hannity show on Fox TV, and a commentator on national radio networks, he contributes weekly to the Texas Faith Column at Dallas Morning News and regularly at Huffington post, and several periodicals across the world. The blog www.TheGhousediary.com is updated daily. Two books are poised to be released this year on Pluralism in America, and Americans Together building a cohesive America. Details at www.MikeGhouse.net

WEDDING OFFICIANT

Mike officiates the interfaith weddings for couples, and delivers a pluralistic sermon to reflect the humanity in respecting the otherness of other, and accepting each other's uniqueness.

If the couple prefers to include the religiosity in the sermon to fulfill the desires of the parents, relatives and friends, the sermon would be tailored to include reflections and essence of the faith(s) of the bride and the groom.

Mike is committed to perform interfaith weddings, and he is a member of the American Marriage Ministries to serve couples the ability to celebrate marriage and other religious functions according to their beliefs.

Mike has performed a variety of combinations - Jewish-Christian; Muslim-Hindu; Jain-Muslim; Muslim-Jewish; Atheist-Hindu and other combinations.

Mike Ghouse can be reached through SpeakerMikeGhouse@gmail.com or text message him at (214) 325-1916